“Say it with your chest.”
A conversation with a mentor, on trusting your own ear.
The following was reconstructed from a conversation on 10.12.25. Quotes lightly edited for length and signal.
What’s the first thing you do when you open rekordbox now?
Delete. I deleted my whole library six months ago and I rebuild every three months. If I haven’t played it in ninety days it’s gone. What’s left is what I’ll actually play out.
“I know me and I know my music. If you have something to say — say it with your chest. And it looks like you have a lot to say.”
What did that advice actually change for you?
I stopped trying to read the room. I started trying to transmit the room. That’s different. Reading is reactive; transmitting is generative. The set tells you what’s coming next.
What’s the hardest part of the rebuild?
Trusting your ear after years of serving other peoples’ ears. You have to re-calibrate what a “good” set even means to you. Once that’s calibrated, everything else is easy.